Who are you? (and new from LeeZu!)


When I first joined SL I created an avatar that looked as much as possible like my RL self. Later I made an alt who was physically everything my adolescent self had wanted to be and wasn’t: a tall busty brunette with emerald eyes and curly locks. Yet somehow she logged on, I felt a disconnect; she just didn’t feel like *me* in the way that my original avatar feels like me. Granted, the original has changed over time; she’s gotten taller and younger, thinner and blonder. I’ve also changed, though not quite in those same ways. But she still feels like me. So much so that, at a restaurant with friends the other day, someone behind me said “Ocean” and I turned around and said “Yes?”

Part of me envies those who fully transform themselves in SL. Fairies and furries, aliens and tinys — we see, and welcome, all kinds here. We know that some of the women we meet are really men and vice versa. It must be amazing to explore those other sides of oneself, and I wonder if it’s timidity or something else that keeps me from doing so. But, whatever path we choose, we’re either learning about our RL selves, or trying to run away from them. I hope I’m one of those who is learning.


LeeZu’s new open blouse is amazing: the Arabesque (not shown here) is lovely and colorful; the Araplain, while less colorful is anything but plain. As always, LeeZu’s textures are intricately drawn and the prim attachments are flattering to every avatar. (Yup, I sprang for the fatpack.) I’m wearing it in green for today’s lunch date because it works so well with these great new Purple Moon sunglasses and lovely and practical shoulder bag from Les Petits Details.

Hair: Lelutka — Charlize — Sweeden
Skin: Glam Affair — Mary — Natural
Eyes: Ibanez — Tranquil — Allure
Lashes: Redgrave — Natural
Makeup: Boom — Liquid Glaze — Silver

Jacket: LeeZu — Araplain Blouse — Olive **NEW**
Top: Coco — Tank Top — Khaki
Pants: R.icielli — Eliza — Chocco
Sunglasses: Purple Moon — Vain Sunglasses — Brown Leopard **NEW**
Jewelry: Baiastice — Stone Silk Set (color change)
Bag: LPD/Les Petits Details — The Chic Snake — Brown
Belt: Pixel Mode/PM — Sol Belt — Brown
Boots: Coco — Over-the-Knee Boots — Brown

Pose: Olive Juice — Regulators

SURLS are on the blog. List to the right ->

  1. #1 by LisaMun Aronowicz on March 25, 2011 - 10:18 pm

    I love this outfit you have on! You sure mixed the colours well!

  2. #2 by Ocean Wade on March 26, 2011 - 11:43 am

    Thanks! It was a bit challenging ’cause I really wanted to get the jacket *and* the sunglasses in the pic…but it was fun.

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